Today we had a postgraduate study day focused on the theme of forgiveness and reconciliation. There were some really interesting issues that came up – and I just want to mention those raised by Stuart Jesson’s paper on ‘Forgiveness and its Reason’…
Stuart began with the position of Trudy Govier, which focuses on the intrinsic worth of the perpetrator rather than on the deeds themselves:
“The explanation permits us to move from the acts themselves to a sense of the human being who was their agent…. In the process of forgiving another, we come to understand him to be a person who is more than his evil deeds, a moral agent capable of more than just wrongdoing. Understanding circumstantial factors, some of which amount to mitigating excuses, makes it easier to distinguish the agent from the acts and in this way makes forgiveness easier.” (Trudy Gover, Forgiveness & Revenge, p57)
As Stuart rightly pointed out, a problem with this approach to forgiveness is that it seems to discount the “evil” that actually occurred, essentially saying that it doesn’t really matter in the big scheme of things, when you take into account the whole of a person’s being. Furthermore, it may actually be the case that coming to understand a person better (eg acknowledging their love for their family) may in fact make their acts of evil all the more grotesque and harder to forgive.
He went on to look at the perspective of Vladimir Jankelevitch, for whom evil cannot be mitigated or justified – and forgiveness is therefore not a matter of excusing, but of facing that which is senseless, accepting its reality, and offering to absorb its pain:
“Above all, forgiveness obeys neither the causality of the loveable, nor the causality of the detestable; it is unleashed neither by a pre-existent value, nor by a countervalue; it trails behind nothing. Not only is it not because the accused is innocent that forgiveness forgives him (innocence, on the contrary, rendering forgiveness superfluous), rather it is much more because forgiveness forgives that the guilty person is innocent.” (Jankelevitch, Forgiveness, p145
I think this is a really worthwhile perspective: Forgiveness doesn’t say “well it doesn’t really matter – you didn’t really mean it…” – it insists, “it does matter, and was senseless – but I will absorb its pain for your sake.”
But (as Stuart & I chatted about afterwards), I think it’s possible to re-instate Govier’s idea of trying to understand the personhood of the perpetrator; not in order to necessarily undo the “evilness” of the crime, but at least to stop myself from becoming self-righteous: I need to recognise that the “senselessness” that drove their crime is a characteristic that I share with them in this age.
Let me give a personal example: In Perth, Australia, just under two years ago, two 18yo girls were arrested for a gruesome crime: They had set upon a 16yo girl who was in their home, overpowered her, bashed her to death, and filmed themselves kissing at the scene. They then stuffed the body into a bin, put it in the shed, and got on with their lives. They were found sunbathing outside when the police came to visit a few days later. At their first court appearance, the judge was outraged that they couldn’t stop giggling. Now all of this is a pretty sure contender for the category of “evil”.
But I have an added perspective – I know one of those two girls who committed the crime. She worked alongside me in the charity arm of my church, doing work experience. And I knew her as a funny, sweet, sad girl, who had been sexually abused all of her life, was experiencing the break up of her parents, and was just aching to be loved. She thought she had found love with her co-accused, and the 16yo girl came onto the scene as an apparent threat to the one instance of love she had ever encountered. She became desperate, and murdered.
Now, does any of this excuse the evil of her crime? No, I don’t think it does: She committed a gruesome, senseless evil. But knowing and understanding her does help me, for my small part, to consider forgiveness - because I’m reminded that she is just like me: Both of us are trying to cope with life and cling to what we cherish, both of us long to experience love, and both of us have areas of our lives that just defy sense and explanation.